importance of freedom between lovers

Visited to a blog just now,
found an interesting part of an article,
just feel like wanna share it here, haha~
She type in Chinese, I'm gonna translate it into English =]

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When 2 people fall in love, there will be a thing appearing.
This thing isn't weird but not specially cute too,
it named " the desire of controlling"
It can be cute sometimes,
but sometimes can be extremely awful too.
Therefore ,
equilibrium and tranquil need a best way to maintain
between Control and Freedom...

When you are ready to have a serious relationship
The first thing you need isn't money, isn't car, isn't an unlimited credit card,
But the freedom for each other.
Otherwise,
"I LOVE YOU" is just a lie.

BUT,
Of course if you're willing to dedicate it yourself,
there are no more reasons for your one to move his/her 's desire of controlling out ...
So equilibrium and tranquil will figure out themselves spontaneously,
and the love between a couple will go on smoothly and longer...
For something you're not willing to do,
although you've showed that you comply to him/her ,
but there will be hundred million of unwilling inside your heart...
In the end, there will be just an increasing of both disaffection...

To meet a lover with hundred million of cells and born to dedicate for your freedom,
perhaps there'll be only 1%

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I'm just agree with this ~
please do not over control about the freedom of your one,
both will just tired so much in this at the end.
Love need spaces too
=]